Monstrous

It doesn't matter if youy ever met them, just if it happened.
I have once along time ago I feel in love with a girl online, but she lived in Florida and I lived here, she had money to come over but was to insecure and I couldn't go to her. We had the most strongest connection. Nothing ever came of it. She got married to some guy.
I would say she loved me too. And just as strongly, but people are people after all.
Her Username was MidnightSorrow, as far as I know she doesn't come online anymore, I dont even know how she is. Even years later and married I miss her sometimes, but isn't that always the way? I still love all my ex's each had that one special quality that you can never get back, that made them themselves. Still I wouldn't leave my wife for anyone of them.

what a silly question?

i'll leave my answer at, of course.  ;)

No, if I'm gonna find love I'm going to do it in reality, now some machine where people can lie about everything about themselves and it turns out you fell in love with a fat, hairy, 55 year old man that still lives with his mom and all he does is sit in front of a STUPID SCREEN ALL HIS LIFE!


So, no I havn't. 0:)

that's what web cameras are for...unless they have someone fill in for them, that action is usually all them.  *sighs*

i miss the webcam meetings. 

I personally see online dating as danergerous. But thats just my tiny teen brain warning me about weird child obssessed adults.

that's very wise, i suppose teens can be more smart than adults, sometimes.  ;)

I have never and by the grace of God will never be put into a situation where that might happen.

No, for 2 reasons..
1: Chances are that even if you do you will never meet them.
2: The 17 year old slim sexy blond girl you think you met is probably 48 male 375 lb child molester. <:smurf

I did have a crush on a guy online... I did not know what he looked like. He does not know my feelings about him but anyway... I guess I had a crush on him because I really like the way he was thinking, he was pretty wise, pretty deep and so funny! Even if I know that he'll get married soon and that we will never meet (he lives in Ireland), I can't control my warm feelings about him...  :roll:

But as for online dating services... no thanks! I prefer making friends online instead. You know, participate in forums. (Like my Irish guy, we participate in a forum.)

irish are cool....
1. depends on the people...my husband and i have been working out plans to go visit some people near by.

2. probably, and why you should exchange pictures and get them on a web cam as soon as possible.

I love you ALL, in different ways and to varying degrees. Even when I'm cross with you  :x   :lol:

 :wink:

and people think polyamory won't work. <^>

Stupidest thing Ive ever done..

Well I wasn't refering to online dating. I meant unintentionally, naturally.
In my situation I met her on a froum and we started talking across msn.
We dont have dating in NZ but due to the Americian influence of TV like halloween people are trying to incorparate it into our culture. Currently its failing, I hope it continues to do so.


BTW You guys are paranoid, not everyone on the Net is going to be a kddie f'ker and your insane if you think you can control attraction.
I liked Zak and Dynny's responses the best.

Its bound to happen when you are on a forum with people your own age, especially all the kids these days whom yern for attention and love. Damn women.

Wasnt on here, though I did almost get an older woman once.  :wink:

No.  I'm married, so if I had inclinations to be attracted to someone, I simply remind myself that I'm happily married and unavailable.

However, I have developed some fairly close friendships and sometimes lost sleep over a problem someone on-line was having.

~Morticia

  :-( Beauty is only skin deep!!

I can't even see this woman's face, but she's still beautiful to me in other ways:

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the barefoot in a dress image  *grins wickedly*

it is a nice image though, peacefully walking down the road, barefoot, hair neatly bound and not getting tangled in your face by the wind.  it really bites when you're wearing some sort of lipgloss, you brush away the hair and end up with a pink streak across your face.   :roll:

Everybody wants to fall in love, the more you wait to meet and celebrate with the beloved, the more phantasms you build around the subject because there is little chance to get disappointed when you interact through a keyboard. Thats's why I encourage you to post your pictures online ... and meet in reality when possible.

he's got a serious point, however...how can you really know who or what you're loving, until you experience the reality?

it's easy to fall in love, but it's not always based on, truth.

Very true. Half the women I have romanced fell in love with not just me, but the 'magic' I could do for them.

^ :roll: ^ Hate it when people mooch off you for things you can do for them.

that's always the danger mastering magicks, they usually wear off...i've got a lot of magic, i need the charms to make it work.  ;)

guess that you can never know for sure if you look at things that way, but dont forget: we are talking about LOVE, and when people fall in love, well, very few if none act smart...

it's not unsmart, just being subjected to emotional needs, some people...thrive on emotion, others are fine without it, love if done correctly can be very sustaining, people just have to, figure out they define what "love" is.

I'm looking for someone with the same personality, as in not worshipping. Or asking to go out to places, someone normal. So I'm gonna have to wait till people open their eyes to a friend of mine called "maturity", espcially girls my age.

Hmmmmm. The only time I have ever fallen in love was with someone online. We're still working out the details of meeting though. I have been honest with her in all things, including my appearance - I'm not fifty-five but M Sidhe had the rest pretty much right. I'm also extraordinarily difficult to be around, so that doesn't help. I think we've all got our heads on straight. So after Armageddon we can all get together and reminisce about the human race, lol.

Shadow of Moloch

some may take offense at this, but i really don't believe young people can fall in "true love" it contains intricities and emotions that should be beyond their emotional maturity...that's why they always have the hardest time dealing with the opposite sex, they're overwhelmed by a confusing rush of feelings and unable to decipher them from each other, call it love....and be done with it.  love to last should be more than just feeling...feelings fade, change, get altered.  Besides they're young, they should enjoy being young...it's gone too quickly to waste it looking for something that changes thate easily.

it gets better once your hormones and emotions become more controlled and stable, but you still get that incident where a person knocks you for a loop, and your left a mess puzzling over them...*shrugs*

it's all fun and games then, until someone gets hurt or left, i suppose.

Amen, Jordyn. When people my age say they're going out and such, and say they love each other its' just them really being idiots rushing to grow up.

I'm 26 now, have been married and divorced one and have a son and what should amount to several psychiatrists fame and fortune in neuroses to show for it. That's one of the beautiful things about the internet; I fell for the girl this time - not her body. This time I believe I may have trully fallen in love. I stomped out all those raging hormone induced fires years in my persuit of my art. I don't have much passion left either, so what's left is purely, simply, love. I know I have a long time left on this Earth, but I hope at least now I finally have met my soul mate. It would be a horriffic disappointment if she were not.

SoM

I can NEVER find anyone like that! most of the girls in my school are either creepy goths, creepier sluts (at 13, thats pretty scary), or preps. My current girlfriend is kinda immature too, but she's really nice and grew alot over the summer :-p

As for jordyn's quote, I agree. I don't really claim to be in love with my girlfriend, we're just that-friends. Just...pretty good friends  ^.^

At your age you just disovering it!  :wink: I miss that time... as an adult it's hard but it's worth it sometimes!

Sorry.  :|

You'd be surprised what todays girls wear in public schools. Its' disgusting how much makeup the pack on to their faces.

No I uderstand and I agree, I was meaning just watch the words you use in your posts!

I think people, young and old, often forget that a relationship takes a choice and work.   We all need to remeber that we aren't perfect (well except for Morticia and DV but they are older and had more practice!)  and neither is the other.  This goes for friendships too.  My wife and I have been married for nine and a half years, have been together for over 11 and have two wonderful daughters to boot!  We have bad days, hell we have bad months!  The easy way out is to say the hell with it and walk away.   The road less traveled is often the one that leads to the greatest rewards, in this case, is standing by your loved one and doing what is best for the other.   

If my wife is being a royal pain, without due cause,  it is my duty to let her know in a caring way that she is out of line.  Now being the sterotypical man who wants to fix everything, I often fall into the trap of trying to solve her issues for her.  When all she really wants is to be left alone to brood, I should accomidate her.  She is now aware of my feelings and thoughts on her actions and I remove some of the possible antaginizers (sp?) being myself and our kids.  After a while she calms down and things get back to normal.   

She has absolutely no problem doing the same for me.  She isn't doing it to spite me, which some co-workers have suggested.  She is doing it because she loves me and I love her and I'm acting like an a@@ which is NOT the way to act.

The bottom line is you have to choose to love some one and work at it.  It keeps getting better as time goes on.

*gets off of soapbox*

ZRY 

From what Zack said, my teen life lives by one of my rules of wisdom; "Live for today, not the future." I'm enjoying every moment before I get married and has to do the wife's bidding.

the marriage goes much more smoothly and you're guaranteed a warm bed.  ;)

If I may point out, some kids are metally capable to know what love is and isnt. I love this woman with my heart and soul and would do anything for her and will feel that way forever.

As for young girls today, its those fashion designers and hollywood that made this acceptable. Its also the parents fault too. They buy the clothes and endorse it at an early age, as well as the child seeing their mother wear a belly shirt and short shorts.

The difference is I WANT to do for my wife, not HAVE to do for my wife.   And she likewise for me.   It is a biblical principle applied, Love your wife like Christ loved the Church. 


I also want to point out that I am in no way perfect at this.  While I aspire to reach this point I oft stumble over mine own ego  :wink:


ZRY 

We can't just blame the fashionistas and Hollywood. Young boys and young men who haven't a brain in their skulls are also to blame. The young women want their attention so much but they see them only paying attention to the fake women in pop culture. Thus they equate them to beauty. Equating this to beauty they strive to attain it so that they may regain the young male's attentions. They just don't realize that they will not have it unless they become EXACTLY like this sex symbol the guy is drooling over. Ladies, men suffer the same problem so don't worry. I won't bother to tell you how many times I've wished I wasn't a freak of nature Being as large as I am I literally turn heads when I'm out in public, especially if I'm out with someone normal.
SoM

Have you notced how young people act like what they see on TV like snotty girls and macho, jerky men? Once aired on TV people are going to watch it and get ideas.

back to blaming anything, but the lack of parenting?

Most parents don't care for their kids education around where I live so they get away with anything, I follow and obey my parents rules leading me to a bright future, unlike most of the kids these days. There life will go down hill if they keep their life up like this.

I see some interesting parallels here. My grandparents said a lot of this same stuff about my parents generation (and mine) and theirs did about them, and ours do about our generation. It is the prerogative of those relatively nearer to the Grim Reaper to complain about how the younger generations are behaving. It also gives us great ideas about how to do it when it's our turn.

SoM

Life doesn't draw lines so it make sense that love works on a learning curve the more you love and give love the less problems you have with it as you move along. Once that needy and insecure crap is stripped away and all you have is a desire to be with the person becuase you like them, love them and quite frankly want to shag them until the bed squeks your preety much on the right track, after that it is just work maintianing a (hopefully) good relationship.
So remember the more times you fal in love, and learn then the longer and more deeper the next one will be.

As to how screwed up people are becoming it is actually all the factors mentioned, it is you just need to take a ruthless veiw to see why. Teens have maaleable minds, based toatlly around inexperience and hormones. They are practically walking piles of need and insecurity. Even children are just little want machines.
So if you want to use them sell to them appeal to them, you go for their basest desires. You feed those primal parts of their minds. So Sex sells, selling beauty sells. Its all empty promises but they sell, and people buy into it. Its not about values it is about using flaws to make money.
Then there is the role models who are the Rock stars and actors who live by their makerting sex, and beauty and crap and peolple think that they have great lives becuase of it, which really isn't true. But people buy into that as well.
Lastly there is the parents who don't give their kids what they need to work their way throught all the BS the world is throwing at them.
We are a part of society and as such we are modelled in the time we were born, there are limits though, common sense suggests that many thing "normal" people do really should qualify a time out in an ice bath. Other things are just straighout crazy but people do them. the PC poliy is a faciest policy, it takes away freedon. Look on the brightside as moral entropy continues the closer we come to social breakdown and civil wars. When the end when it ends whoever is left wil be wiser and hopefully build something better.

I apologize but I must take the cynical view here. We're human, therefore we err. We won't build anything better or much more permanent. We'll simply put things back where they should have stayed for a while and then the entropy begins again. It's a cycle, like the beating of a heart. In and out, up and down. As long as life survives so does this cycle. Also, quite frankly - screw PC. I watch what I say on here out of respect for my fellows here, not because I feel I must. This I believe is the higher reasoning. Who cares about a person's feelings? If you cater to that person without them having earned that they have no appreciation for it and will walk all over you. However if they earn your respect and deferrence and vice versa then there will arise a mutually rewarding respectful relationship where a true exchange of ideas can occur.

SoM

I like the idea of having to establish respect for someone who you've not seen or just talked with over the net..  Though, i may say that online dating could be very dangerous as well. 

I have a friend who've met somebody online like a few years ago.  They chatted for like 2 years before they decided to take the relationship to a new level then finally decided to meet.  They met alright, firstly things went on fine. Then soon they decided to get married and eventually my friend went to live with him in the states.  After 1 year I just  hear she was dead.  She was actually killed by her husband out of jealousy or something.  And they indeed met online.  2 years of establishing something there went to nothing....So online dating could be very harmful too...Oh well, that's as far as i know...




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I dont believe this, yesterday I was watching something on TV and they talked about that case. World is just a tiny place!

My little sister introduces her boyfriends to me to help prevent thiss sort of thing. Basically, I'm so huge and naturally look/sound so mean that it scares them into not hurting her. It works too. My baby sis brought her husband home to meet the family and the first time he laid eye on me (I promise folks I was in a good mood) he thought he was going to die. I hadn't  even formed and opinion about the guy yet! So, here's to big brothers who look like psychopaths...................

Hear hear!!!

lmao this is tooo funny man! maybe you should make a copy of yourself and send it here to be my bro, cause, Im not very fortunate with guyz that like me...  :doh:

I remember how my brothers were ever protective of me once.. But later on they got over it .  Ha ha...looks like they got tired of it anyway.  Otherwise,  I would have grown like one old spinster...

Oh well, back to the topic! And yes, quite a crazy world out there.  The least you expect the more it arises.  And this is just one case of my friends'.  I'm still aware that there are still more out there.  Although, there are some good endings too...I know a few actually...



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Growing up how I did, and doing what I did; seems to have given me an ever cruel countenance. I don't like to fight, though I do it well. I will do anything to protect those few I care for......and Nina........If I could clone me and send me over to you I would...but you gotta teach me how to speak your language when I get there!  :lol:

You dont have to say anything, for all that I understand of what you said here. <^>

Done it alot of time but i would do it for the sence of chaos and tell my friends a storyof what happend to me last night,and i wudn't fall in love online tho. if turns out to be 33 yrs  ,i come  prepare with a cell phone and bat and paper spray .also i wud use that cell to call my buddies for some violence.i wudn't like other people saying no i rather be at home i wud to stay trap home in the computer and later go with my friends and drink smoothies ,walk the mall to see the girls

When I was 14 yes, I did. Rather, I had a crush on a guy, and he was from another country, so of course, nothing would come of that.

i met my current girlfriend online and we have been together for 10 months now. some people say it's sad but isnt that one of the reasons the internet was made for to meet new people?

Yes, I have and Married her... was back in a chat room in 2000 winter, she was living in England I was in Missouri and we hit it off.  The rule is to be honest with each other in every way long story short she here in Mo. and we're Happy :@0

yes it can work - esp if yr both honest with each other, tho unfortunately many arent. *<:)  but we are living proof it can work, and 7 yrs later, it has  :evil:

I think i'm in love right now. :lol:

do tell  :-P

yes, we're dying to hear.

Umm, I don't believe u can fall in love on the first sight, i believe you have to know the person first. My boyfriend and i have been toghether happily for nearly five years now, but before that, we were best friends for over a year.
Being a friendship-first believer, i must also say that you have to actually ''see'' the guy/girl as well...

i have fallen in love online, but only with the ''idea'' of the guy

i agree, i meant to say that u need to meet the person also, but it is possible.   :-P

Fine..... what Glo-wwy said then.

I'm in love with the "idea of the girl" :-(

oh how disappointing, i thought we were gonna be privvy to some gossip LOL

Everybody is in love with the "idea".... Every man has his Beatrice, and every woman has a knight in shiny armor ...

as Metallica said: "Sad but true...."

Really, you too have to tell the difference between love and lust  0:) And online it never happened to me, no reliable virtual cupids in gothicmatch.com *shrugs*
Yes I do agree with really knowing the person, online a person can lie as much as they want to. Relationships are built with trust, it's not something visible in someone's dating profile

Its normal that love and lust are not the same... its stupid to even discuss that  <:smurf

well the fact remains that i fell in love online, and its still - 7 years later - working!  i admit i wasnt looking for love, but once i found him,,,,,,,,,LOL

I met one of my best friends online, :lol: ..though he does say things that a best friend doesn't normally say...

did you ever actually meet him face-to face?

And hey, if it works for you, who am I to judge. Just take measures to take care of yourself. And be happy.

This is going a bit off topic but...
Personally I can't completely fall in love online, and to mention it I recall a story of my friend who had met someone in Boston and when she came back to her hometown he sent her an e-mail asking to be his girlfriend, and I thought that was one of the most outrageous ways to ask someone to be their girlfriend, through e-mail! Am I the only one that thinks so?

No. Your not. Though you can build your main center of attraction by your online relantionship with a person, I could never bring myself to ask some one out that I had never met in person. That person has to know what she is getting into before she answers. I am a very physical person and she has to know just how passionate a lover I am. That can not be said by just mere words but only experienced.

The heavy breathing.
The sensitive skin.
The moisture in the air.
The steam that rises off the body.

These are only some of the things she must be ready to experience.

Good luck to any female who tries to tame and ride me. I am not easy, and your going to have to get physical if you want to go any where.

Now there have been people online that have caught my attention to the point where I stayed single until I met the girl, but that is about as far as it goes.

I believe that "Love on first sight" is just a biological reaction to a genetically perfect mate. Or somethin like that. But yes, I have fallen in love on the internet. I know it's just puppy love, or a kiddie crush, but there is this guy, I call him my Beau, that just makes me feel all excited & happy to talk with. n_n

Mmmmm........ hawtness.........


ahem. a bit off topic, but............ what is true love? :-D

A love that is not false.  :-D

The utter destruction of equality. There is a runner and a chaser. One who chases and one who runs. We have all chased once or will chase in the future. Those who have not chased yet, satan, gawd, budahu, power deity, me, mommy, family member, any farker, help you when it happens.

It simply doesn't matter though, we all fall in the end.

Wow Tybalt. It's like you're a personification of all I dare not say, lest hearin it out loud shatters my fragile hold on sanity. n_n

Thanks, I some what hear that often. Why sugar coat life, you sugar coat life you will miss the sweet times.

PS: That was a compliment, me tellin you how awesome you sound. >XD

to chase is to move my friend. to turn static is to die.

Those who have not chased yet, satan, gawd, budahu, power deity, me, mommy, family member, any farker, help you when it happens.

It simply doesn't matter though, we all fall in the end.
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I have to agree with Tybalt here. It will eventually happen to us all. As for falling in love online, I met my love offline, in the real world. I still swear by that now.

And SA, heh, I tried that site too, and got nada. I also tried eHarmony, and they actually told me I was undate-able! I guess no one really wants or expects honesty online, lol.

Pfft! Then let me die, A painless death is a blessing. Not to sound emo or any thing. To run is to also move, its also keeping yourself enternally entertained at the expense of another's possible very un-doing.


Thanks. Stick around, there aren't very many people more awsome than I am. I've gotten use to the perks that second best gives.

Lolz, sure Tybalt. & @Moloch, E-Harmony is a total jerk. They only accept stereotypically perfect people. Give them an AVERAGE person, & they turn 'em down as bad. >=/

You cannot prevent it, but it does happen, at least once. :spy:

Yeah, my Beu is awesome. n_n

Actually, I STILL laugh at that to this day. Then again, considering my mental state, it was probably for the best for all of those young ladies that I was never introduced to them.

Ditto to every chick accept for one.

 :spy:

I don't get it. <=/

Read again Petling, I'm starting to get worried about you. :|

Ohhh, E-Harmony. Okay, sorry, kinda bit of a spazz. :-D

 Yes.. I have fell in love online, but I agree with Petling when she described it as "puppy love, or a kiddie crush"... I take it by steps... and follow my instincts every time now! To ignore them after I've learned so much... would mean my emotional death. I have two people that I'd trust my life and everything else with.. that I've never met in person. I don't trust my own family as far as I trust these two. Call me whatever you like for it.. but I know I can. No doubts. No second-guessing. No worries.

Ditto to you too, Kadesh.

I think meeting people on line is better than meeting them IRL. You get to know them. :spy:

Yes, good knowing them before you actually meet them, so getting hooked up isn't the first thing that happens.  :roll:

Totally. Plus you don't have any of that social awkwardness to get in the way. :-D

 The sad thing about it is, not everyone is honest about themselves. They see the online world as a place to 'play' and act totally different.

It makes real actors look bad. :-D

Kadesh is right, most folks aren't honest about themselves online. That's what makes it so dangerous to meet someone offline for the first time.

 And damn If I didn't learn that.... the hard way.

What happened? Who dared to break your heart? I'll rip his balls off. :|

 Break my heart... that's mild. Try date rape. On Valentines day. Cops are scum too.  :wink:

Yeah... Kadesh and I have a lot of history together. I happen to know about this one. She actually had to talk me down after telling me. You could say I'm not the best person to tell these sorts of things to, I tend to go psycho over it.

He RAPED YOU?!?!?! W!T!F!!! :gun:

 :focus:

Girl..... Im speechless....  :-( :cry: :x

I'm sorry, hoped I didn't bring up any bad memories. :-(

 Mmories are why I write. I can't get them out of my head. And that's actually one of the least offensive. But it doesn't matter. Such is life...

I still wanna rip his balls off. :|

 The worst part of that is he's a cop in the town my grandparents live in. He pulled me over a year ago... Gods that was a horrible night.

First me, now Kadesh, what's wrong with those guys?! The world has always gone mad, and now we're victimized by it. The guy that had beaten the shyt out of me wouldn't rape me because he called me an ugly bitch, but then I met another one, ... nothing happened because I escaped and got rid of the pervert.

Once again, the world has always gone mad and now we're victims of it. 

 That's not the worst of it, SA. Not by 1/2. But this isn't the place for all that.. even if I were going to share, it'd have to be in "Human Monsters".

I had to stop visiting the site where my Beau is on. Too much stuff to do. Not enoug time. :cry:

Kadesh is right. There's a lot of worse things... and it all belongs right in Human Monsters, if she wanted to share. Let's drop this one for her sake though folks.

... It's only a drop compared to this miserable ocean... oh I had enough, I don't want to talk about it anymore. Back to topic.

Dude, my last post was on topic. Right? Please tell me I am right. :cry:

 So.. my answer is yes, I have. Was it a stupid thing to do?? Definitely!! Will I do it again?? Of course.

Of course it was Petling, no worries.  :-*

Oh, thank god. :-D

You're welcome.

  *<:) *<:)

Has Moloch ever fallen in love on line? :?

 Read the beginning of this thread, m'dear.

Was he talking about Rose? :?

 No..... nuff said. Just drop that one Petling.....

.... yes, do drop it please .... For nuff's sake....lol

Has anyone here ever encountered any sexual predators online that posed as your ideal mate? These stories always make for riveting stuff.

It's extremely rare for me to met people this way, I meet people IRL then I go online to contact them. One time it didn't appear at all to be my ideal mate but still....

Nope Raziel. But I got a really bad scare that way. I fell for this totally perfect guy, & we started chatting. But then I found out he was 4 years younger than me. He was 15, while I was 19. Creepy as all hell. :-D

Darn that's something that totally takes you back, lol.

What are you talking about? I don't recall asking you anything....


Oh... and about the kid? meet him and talk to him. perfect guys need friends too you know.......... and who knows? he might grow on ya. ^_^

Nope I think she was answering blow_fly's question and mistaken it for you, lol.

Age isn't every thing, younger guys are usually more honorable then older guys, they haven't had their hearts broken yet.

It isn't until later they become real ass holes and lose all care they have in what others think of them, including the ones they hold close.

Sorry about that, I was answering blow_fly's question. & yeah, I'm still his friend, he makes me wish I was a pedophile sometimes, that's how awesemundo he is. So I guess Tybalt's right, younger guys aren't wormholes. :-D

Damn straight.

Miss, its only four years.... hmm..... and i don't think he'd mind ravishing you just cause you're older than he is. haha.


But seriously. if you like him and he likes you, i don't see a reason why you two can't at least go out. You could be his sugar momma.... .........Eww....

It's called statutory rape, and prison. In prison, someone else will be her sugar mama. Someone named levona, with frizzy mismatched hair, buck teeth (the ones she still has), and lots of cellulite to share on those cold nights.

Ahhh!!! GODAMNIT MOLOCH!!! Stop it right there!!! ROFLMAO!!! Gross!!! Gross!!! Gross!!! *<:)

Hmm......... keep him close anyway.... then wait till he's 18. <^>

I'm planning on it. The funny thing is, all his other guy friends love me in the forum where I met him. *<:)

In the event that two individuals of below  legal age are caught in the act of fornication, will the guy involved get charged with rape? That's how the law operates in my country. Is it the same in the States?

I'm not sure. There is no country wide law about it. Each state has it's own laws. In some the legal age is 16, while in the majority the age is 17, & most famously the rest are 18. In my old state they said if both are underage then they still have to be within certain months of each other. So two 12 year olds can fornicate, while a 12 year old & a 14 year old can't. So I guess it's whoever is older. :?

Ah. That makes more sesne than convicting people based soley on their gender.

What country are you from? :-D

Singapore,home of the famous Singapore Sling.

Cool, does your name have a special meaning? A lot of people here do. :-)

The blow fly is an insect that is reviled for the damage it inflicts on live stock. On the other hand, its larvae, namely maggots, actually have the ability to save someone's life when utilised correctly by medical practioners. It is this dramatic contrast that appeals to me, the fact that the same creation of nature can be both a bane and a boon to mankind.

Wow, that's cool. Sucks for the livestock & farmers, but cool. :-D

that advice is good

Yeah, but I still feel like a dirty pervert sometimes. :-D

You really dont get it do you? Please read what other write, then answer, and dont just answer for the sake of it.


This is second warning girl....

Eh, not something I'm proud of. I never knew what she looked like until a few months later and....  <^>

 :doh: I don't mean to sound shallow, but I think a heretic from Hell crawled up and devoured half of her and then was like
"Ew, Gross" and spit her out half-chewed. x_X
That was the end of those experiences. Physical relations are sooooo much more pleasing.

 :banplea:

 *<:) *<:) *<:) *<:) *<:)

 *<:) *<:) *rolls on the floor laughing*  *<:) *<:)

Don't feel shallow. Who wants to be with some one who can't take care of themselves. I mean I don't want to live with some one who doesn't know how to take a shower, or doesn't care about their appearance. Every one, and I mean every one can with enough effort become to look the stereo typical version of normal, and every one can make themselves look appealing.
I have done it to a many women. Tybalt also has a many groupies. Its funny, men chase after them now and they remember how the men rejected them, and they chase after me and I reject them which makes the men hate me, and occasionally have to crack some skulls.

To me, online connection can spark love, but it can not feed love all on its own. The best it can do is spark to the point I will get the phone number, and then plan to meet with them face to face later.

I am in love with some one in a 16yr old
and I could care less

As I said, young guys are pure, I should know it wasn't too long I use to be one.

I gave my soul, spirit, heart, and farking body to one girl... Now I want my innoence back. I will cut for it. I want my heart back in my hand and have it wiped clean.

But thats a lost desire, even if it would happen,

I would be doom to expreince it again... I would rather hump glass than do that.

To my young male trainees, this is for you and your current girl friends who have you running like a dawg.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jUv1BH5AImA (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jUv1BH5AImA)

Funny thing is... by thirteen I was already completely lost. I can't say why Rose is different, but she is.

How depressing of you.
And pessimistic!  :cry:

Lolz, completely. But I like the song.

I think the only people I have ever fallen in love with have been online. All the people I've been with IRL have just been flings. Or basically friends with benefits. :-D

:0 how naughty.

Not really. It just makes more sense for me. Why ruin a good friendship by trying to make it more? For me all it was was a casual physical attraction between friends. Good lord, but I do miss them. :-)

hmmmm freinds with benifits

could work
naaah

Never had a friend with benefits, or been one. There's no benefit to having a corpulent bag of cellulite crushing the wind out of you while reproducing sexual movements via something akin to a prolonged seizure.

Yeah, not really that bad, but that's the mental image most girls usually get when they take a look at me, or did anyway.

never had one ether

Friends with benefits suck, I flirt if they know me long enough so they know I'm just being playful, or do something like cuddle to cheer them up.... but getting laid is too much - that's what boy/girlfriends are for, and friends with benefits are for those who can't or don't fancy getting a companion for intimate relationship. 

ok thats why I have not had one

For me, their is a big difference between mere lust & actual love. & I just never met anyone I could fall in love with IRL. I loved a lot of friends, but I was never IN love with them. :-)

In that case Petling, go wild!  :banplea:

Thanks. I think that's why I can flirt so easily with y'all. Lord forbid I do fall in love with someone in here. Then you'll really see something. *<:)

 :spy: *<:)  :spy:

*Makes the sign on the inverted Cross, splashes himself with cursed water from the sewers of Rome, and draws an inverted pentacle in his forehead with a scalpel.* "Just in case anyone was getting any ideas..."

It would be a whole lot easier if you just wore a "Flirt With Me, And You Die." T-shirt or something, lol.

hmmm
'puts on a shirt that says" I'm ripe want to take a bite"'

 *<:) *<:) *<:)

*I put on a t shirt that sez i'm with stupid., with a big finger  pointing at you ladies*  <:smurf

Why me Raz???? Why MEEEEE?????  :| :-o :cry:

Raz is mean...  :cry:

...there was something always telling me he was gay... *<:)

Mean and gay.... man... where is this world going???  :doh:

Down the drain. Now let us :focus: :wink: :-D

I told all of you!

? Told us what?  :?

Told us that Raz is gay, that he has a turtle dick, or both?  *<:)

Ohhh... I thought that Turtle dick thing was a secret?? Oh well..  :roll:  Let's drag Raz to after hours and see if we can't coax it outta it's shell.  *<:) :banplea:

 *<:) *<:) *<:)

We should see if one of the other guys can. :evil: *<:)

I am not volunteering for this job.

No worries, not when you're the one who traumatized him to this point, lmmfao.

Moloch, even if you tried, I don't think you have the... Charm, to make it work. *<:)

Mo has that psychotic type of charm. What serves for Raz's case is something like ... KAIN, COME OVER HERE, WE NEED YOU DO A FAVOR!!...

I'll be your sex slave for a week if you do, Kain!!! PROMISE!!! :-D

You all sicken me..... * walks out the door*

 Chicken. 

It's okay, he's still tied up in After Hours. :evil:

Maybe we should get :focus: ???

Long distance relantionships are painful.

I second that, for the long distant relationships are somewhat painfully yes, for not being physically present, but in life we meet such an amazing person... they can be thousands of miles away, but still change our lives and provides the affection only we can offer to each other. 

 That's very true SA... They are hard, but if you both want them to.. they'll work. It takes an amazing amount of trust and patience though.

You have no idea how true that is. Believe me...

I will. Lolz, cuz I've never been in one. :-D

Patience I have, trust is in short supply and not given easily.

I think I trust to much

Why is that?

I trust, sooner or later, I would risk having my heart broken again, but I take that risk if that person earned my trust.

You are so romantically in love with your pain....

I know it... been there... am there....  :roll:

Love is blind... blind by love
Blind by pain? Painfully blind
Painful love, lovely pains
The past is gone, the pain remains.

Yes, I see what you mean.  :lol:

I had never fallen in love with someone, at least not the way that would fit into "falling in love"  scheme.....

But I know Im connected to some with.... something.... that I cant describe...... or maybe I could describe but I think thats weird..... soooo, Im not gonna say anything...  for that is the best.... really.... :-fly)

My heart cannot be broken simply because its particles are scattered into the wind of my sorrow...... were someone willing to gather them and make them whole, then i would be able to find love... but not before.

well I have been on alot of dates in my time and I trust them and they end up hurting me
( I wish I was like kay ,he does not have that kind of fellings he can love but cant be hurt by betral)

Oh? Did I hear a turtle need summoning?  :evil:

Kain The Turtle man!!!!  :-D

First Mutant Ninja Turtles... now this...  *<:)

 *<:) *<:) *<:) *<:) Glad my skills are finally getting noticed. Poor Raz, he's getting the brunt of everything  %*)

But deep down we all love Raz, he's like an annoying but precious brother here on Monstrous.  0:)

 Yes it is! What would we do without Raz??


 

 And, SA, I know how true that is... I've lived it. I tried to trust him in spite of lies.. but I could never fully forgive or forget. I'll never do that again. Lie to me and your ass is gone. I'm finally listening to the advice I give others. lol.

I think falling in love online is better. Cuz then the whole relationship isn't about carnal relationships. Plus you get to know who they are deep down inside, you can develop that bond that soul mates are aways bragging about. :-D

So true, very single word.

Thank you, I do have my moments. As few as they are. :-D

Raz. is smarter than most of you know. He really doesn't get enough credit.

I know he's smart. & I know he's great. That's why I mess with him so much, cuz I know he's cool enough to handle it. :-D\

You, on the other hand, aren't. So I try not to mess with you very much. :wink:

 *<:) *<:) *<:)


 

Maybe we should get :focus: ??? :?

I love both Raz and Ty.... dont mess with them girl... or youll lose YOUR balls  :evil:

Nahhh, girls always win the battles between genders. :-D

Cuz if we don't, then they aint getting any booty. :wink: *<:)

 *<:) *<:) *<:)

 Very true.... but it doesn't matter if you're with someone who won't put out!! :gun: :gun:

Egh, that is true my friend. Very true. :|

WHoa! did i miss the apocalypse or something? i understand my awesomeness is, well.............awesome.

but  this is ridiculous.

What're you talking about, Raz? :?

 Don't delve too deeply into that, Pet. I really don't have the extra cash to round up a search party...

last page.

Oh, that stuff. :-(

Anyways, we should get :focus:

 Falling in love online is so easy because there's so little risk. You only talk to them online... it's a fantasy world. Real life is where things begin to bug you... Anyone can fall in love online... even on the phone... but live with that person in real life... see what happens then.

Ugh, that's why I've never fallen in love IRL. Too much "muck & grunge" :|

Falling for love IRL sucks because I don't get to know/talk much with the person. Now, online and on phone calls we talk and get to learn more about each other than anybody else that mets in person - that's what makes it special.

The only time I've ever been close to falling in love IRL, we went on a date, then he scratched his crack, then picked his nose with that finger. After that I just stopped trying. :-(

I used to have this thing for a messed longed-haired ripped-at-the-knees-jeans grunge boys, but now that's nothing hygienic, yuck.

I hate that!!! How the hell do they make being dirty so damn sexy?!?!?! :| :gun: :gun: :gun:

Getting "dirty" is innuendo and somehow they went dirty literally ...  :roll:

 

He he, reminds me of something I read once. "Good sex is messy. Great sex is even messier." *<:)

the messier the better I say  :wink:

I know, & from personal experience too. :wink: *<:)

I always enjoy getting cleaned afterwards though with them involved.

Yeah, the showers are the best part. :-D

I love showers, who here loves showers?

I do, hmm, hot steamy showers... especially in the dark...

Nahhh, with one or two candles, so you can watch the shadows dance on their skin. :-fly)

Lolz, :focus:

 In a little bitty shower stall... so you brush eachother's wet, slick skin every time you move...

Goddamn. I need to find somebody IRL, 2 years is way too long. :|

Only two years Petling? I went for ten before I met Rose. Yes, I'm absolutely serious.

Geesh, how many times a day did you... Relieve stress? :?

ok pet. i wanna hear you answer that one first.

I haven't... Oh crap, I don't want Loki to have to ban me, maybe we should get back on topic? :?