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« on: April 03, 2008, 09:39:29 AM »

hey guys. i believe i may have my first girlfreind! but the thing is im wondering shoud i tell her about me being a therian? what do you guys think.
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« Reply #1 on: April 03, 2008, 11:43:55 AM »

Well that depends.... what she like anyway. its kinda hard suggest advice for such a vage discription.

remember, comunication is what makes relationships work. So try to keep her talking about herself.  you can use the information gathered to decide whether to tell her later.

and remember, while you can wear your heart on your sleeve, its also your heart that you give to your "mate".

So try to keep it safe and special cheesy
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« Reply #2 on: April 03, 2008, 04:30:48 PM »

I probably sound like an idit, but whats a therian?
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« Reply #3 on: April 03, 2008, 07:02:36 PM »

((lols, i'm gonna piss people off with this discription.. but the resulting wave of emotions will feed my ego, lols

How ever, i fully expect someone will correct me on this,, or else you are all dumbass homeless homos with fake tits)

My boy,A therian is a person who thinks hes an animal traped in a human body. Kinda how some homosexuals think they're females traped in a male body.  ban me
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« Reply #4 on: April 03, 2008, 11:33:59 PM »

lol homeless homos with fake tits huh?

yes an animal trapped in a humans body is kinda a good description for a therian
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« Reply #5 on: April 04, 2008, 07:02:14 AM »

Off topic, but I can't resist. Raz, I'm neither homeless nor a homosexual, but my MOOBS are 100% real.

And Luminar, congratulations young man. Raz's comment about communication is dead-on. However, remember how young you are, and hold off on the engagement ring, ok.
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« Reply #6 on: April 07, 2008, 06:08:49 PM »

well if you don't want to keep secrets from her, then tell her and make her understand
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« Reply #7 on: April 08, 2008, 05:53:57 AM »

good advice i dont want to ruin it for something so stupid.
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« Reply #8 on: April 10, 2008, 09:16:35 AM »

Off topic, but I can't resist. Raz, I'm neither homeless nor a homosexual, but my MOOBS are 100% real.

And Luminar, congratulations young man. Raz's comment about communication is dead-on. However, remember how young you are, and hold off on the engagement ring, ok.

Damn it Moloch you gave me a really bad.. bad.. mental image xD jesus christ, oh god.. help xD
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« Reply #9 on: April 11, 2008, 09:36:29 AM »

well i guess the biggest question is how will i know if its time? i mean i trust her but i dont know if she could accept it or not shes very religious.
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« Reply #10 on: April 11, 2008, 10:04:12 AM »

be very very blunt. and hope for the best. building up anticipation could be counter productive.

That is unless you know how to do it properly.
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« Reply #11 on: April 11, 2008, 09:08:00 PM »

truthfully i would just tell her slowly. Let her get to know about it over a period of time. I know if you just confronted her by saying "Oh i need to tell you something i am a were" I think she might flip or think your crazy. Some people don't but the majority of them do. Oh and moloch is right by saying not to rush into it too fast. I was with my last boyfriend for a year and a half and we both wanted to get married but I had a strange feeling about something and that i was worried what might happen when i leave for tibet next year. So i broke up with him because of that feeling and just recently found out that 3 days after i left for college he cheated on me and I didn't know until yesterday. You have to get to know the girl better and gain each others complete trust. He didn't trust me but i trusted him and he cheated on me because he didn't trust me. Now I am hurt but I am use to it I always get cheated on for some reason it may be a curse or something I don't know... But yes let her know but slowly if you bluntly say it she might freak out or think you are crazy so....

good luck!!!!
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« Reply #12 on: April 18, 2008, 05:25:07 AM »

thank you. another topic of interest is that she has recently been saying some wierd stuff. she keeps saying stuff like wouldnt it suck if i had lukemia and noone knew about it? i think she might actually have it. even worse she mention guys in her past have left her because they find out she has had illnesses in the past and so they leave for fear of the unkown. maybe she thinks ill do the same or maybe im crazy. what do you guys think?
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« Reply #13 on: April 18, 2008, 02:53:04 PM »

It sounds like she might be sick or something. Let her tell you that on your own though. Let her know you'd still care about her no matter what happens.

And when it comes to telling her about being a were, see if she thinks weres are cool and interesting, but don't give away. Ask her questions like "hypothetically, what would do if you met someone who was a werewolf?", and see what she says. I've done it before even though I'm not a were. I wanted to see if my best friend was open to the supernatural and stuff. She says she'd be terrified, and I've been careful what I talk about because of that. If your girlfriend says she'd be afraid, be careful and wait a little while to see how much she trusts you. Don't wait too long though, because if it hurts the relationship, you don't want to be completely in love with her.

I wish you luck with your girlfriend.
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« Reply #14 on: April 21, 2008, 02:08:56 PM »

well im still not sure but i talked to her about it and she said she isnt sick.
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