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scaryfrightened
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« on: May 06, 2008, 05:11:51 PM »

So there is this thing called compulsion, that i didn't really know I could do. It's like you can get people to do what you want. It has a certain effect on guys, if you know what I mean. Well there is this guy I know, and whenever I would ask him to do something he would just do it with little or no hesitation. I never really understood why. Then when leaving spanish after I effortlessly got him to switch numbers on a speaking quiz with me and friends who isn't human and knows i'm not human and understands these things more than me told be he looked dazed. she asked if i asked him anything and told me what i had done and been doing. I feel really bad and now he likes me. What should I do and does anyone know more about this?
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« Reply #1 on: May 07, 2008, 09:00:05 PM »

Uhm. Ok. I tried to understand this. Sounds like dribble to me but i worked it out Tongue

Well, the only way to get people not to like you is to hurt them.. be it mentally or psychically. Be it just mean or really nasty.
Also you could just ignore the person, it usually sends the general message that you don't like the person back. Right? haha

This coming from a human. Or at least my human side or whatever...  Anyways. You'll figure something out yourself in the end, though noticing your "vampire" avatar i think this situation of yours is hopeless anyways.


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scaryfrightened
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« Reply #2 on: May 07, 2008, 10:09:03 PM »

I know i can ignore him but this im so sick of losing my friends because of what i am.
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« Reply #3 on: May 08, 2008, 08:10:30 AM »

I'm  not trying to discredit you but it sounds like he is the victim of that nasty thing called puberty. If you just ignore him long enough he will lose interest and find someone else to fawn over. Thats just the nature of guys. Sorry we are such primitive beasts, but hey we didn't ask to be this way  tongue Don't worry about hurting him he will get over it, but to continue to lead him on is wrong. If you don't like him, then you need to let him know. The longer you wait the harder it will be for him. And it is possible, though somewhat difficult to remain friends if that is what you wish to do. Ahh to be young again  cheesy
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« Reply #4 on: May 08, 2008, 06:36:43 PM »

Hah. indeed Kain. so true indeed.

Losing your friends. Heh. losing friends... i could tell you everything about losing friends. But then again who needs them?

Sure its nice to keep 2-3. But in the end people think about themselves and thats it. fark him, hah. Thats what i say. He will come back and be friends with you anyways. Just sit down with him and use your little magic to turn this whole thing around. Finish what you started girl.


Omni.

Heh, and sorry for being a bit harsh but its sorta my nature
and i don't care anymore about feelings of others when it comes to fist to fist matters like this one.
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scaryfrightened
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« Reply #5 on: May 08, 2008, 07:27:31 PM »

Thanks. Oh and its fine about the being harsh thing
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« Reply #6 on: May 28, 2008, 05:30:23 PM »

 I wouldn't say I agree with Omni, but I understand that point of view. Being someone that's been hurt too many times by people who are sworn to "protect and serve" and people that were supposed to love me; I tend to think about people's feelings. I don't want to hurt someone like I've been hurt. That being said, it is possible to remain friends, if you're both mature enough.
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« Reply #7 on: May 29, 2008, 07:46:55 PM »

I wouldn't say I agree with Omni, but I understand that point of view. Being someone that's been hurt too many times by people who are sworn to "protect and serve" and people that were supposed to love me; I tend to think about people's feelings. I don't want to hurt someone like I've been hurt. That being said, it is possible to remain friends, if you're both mature enough.

I as well see Omni point of view and say that is the safest way to go about life but it is also the hardest thing to go about life, maybe not for you but for beings of instinct that is almost very damn well impossible! You usually end of letting one member of the same sex close to you and if you are a being of instinct well, your instincts not only tell you to stay alive but to carry on your gift of life which you can not do alone. Looking at your vampire marker I will assume you are a vampire (and if you are not ignore, your not the only one who picks the wrong marker, I as well, of course that marker was the closest thing to me) I am not really sure you have instincts any more.

It is wrong to lead him on, it is fun to lead him on, it is even more fun to play with him, in fact most people would call that sick.
First thing, you must find out if you like him or don't. If you do, well go with him, if you don't, continue reading.
Second you must find out if you care about the boy's feelings. If you do, continue reading if you don't do what ever the fark you want who cares, after all you don't.
Don't lead him on, be straight to him as soon as possible.
If he continues to be around you, ignore him, you have tried to be civil and mature and he is choosing to be a little boy.

Losing friends... You seem to be the type of person who keeps their friends close which will probally come close to damn well near killing you and if a boy friend does turns on you, I am going to hate feeling what you will feel.
There is a saying Frighten.
Your enemy's eyes look a hell of alot like your friend's do.
Your real enemies Frighten are the ones that can actually really hurt you and give you wounds that will either last too long or never heal. The only type of people who can give you those wounds are well, the ones close.

This boy is a speed bump in your life, be prepare, its a bumpy road life is.
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scaryfrightened
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« Reply #8 on: May 29, 2008, 09:07:56 PM »

I didn't really realize i was leading him on but by now i have done my best to just avoid him for his sake.
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« Reply #9 on: May 30, 2008, 01:15:33 AM »

any updates?  wink
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« Reply #10 on: May 30, 2008, 05:24:06 AM »

I didn't really realize i was leading him on but by now i have done my best to just avoid him for his sake.

Good, than your most likely not leading him on.
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« Reply #11 on: May 30, 2008, 01:35:40 PM »

 He's just showing his maturity... or lack thereof....
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Petling
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« Reply #12 on: July 14, 2008, 01:27:51 AM »

Darn, but emotions, loyalty, & respect are such harsh things. Now I know why we love our monsters in Hollywood, so many of us wish we could becme that which has no such cares anymore. <=/
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« Reply #13 on: July 14, 2008, 11:34:33 AM »

Scary, I agree, it's more likely just ordinary puberty kicking in, and he'll forget you if you give him no reason not to.
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Petling
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« Reply #14 on: July 14, 2008, 01:52:52 PM »

I think so too, my younger brother is a young teenager. & he's crazy most of the time. So just do what you think best. n_n
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